Articles

Writing on relational life, emotional truth, and the practice of tending the space between people.


Before Words: Ogden, Containment and the Making of the Hearth

Thomas Ogden, primitive experience, and the relational conditions in which feeling becomes thinkable

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From Reaction to Relational Reversibility

Piaget, regulation, and the maturation of the Hearth

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Making Room for the Other

Piaget, relational schemas and the Hearth

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One Fire at a Time

Piaget, perspective and the relational conditions of reciprocity

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Containment Before Resolution

Why relational safety determines what conversation can accomplish

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Defensive Mirroring

How protective responses begin reflecting one another across the relational field

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Speaking Around the Fire

Adult presence, emotional truth, and the space that lets feeling enter relationship

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Attending the Fire

Presence, continuity, and the experience of being received in relationship

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When the Fire Moves Between Us

Relational ignition and the moment an exchange begins generating emotional force of its own

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Returning to the Hearth

Rupture, repair, and the practice of finding the way back

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A Gap in the Heart of Relationship

How a relational middle becomes inhabitable when two forms of protection create incompatible conditions for safety

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Relational Memory

How repeated experiences between people become expectations carried into the present

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