Articles
Writing on relational life, emotional truth, and the practice of tending the space between people.
Before Words: Ogden, Containment and the Making of the Hearth
Thomas Ogden, primitive experience, and the relational conditions in which feeling becomes thinkable
Read articleFrom Reaction to Relational Reversibility
Piaget, regulation, and the maturation of the Hearth
Read articleMaking Room for the Other
Piaget, relational schemas and the Hearth
Read articleOne Fire at a Time
Piaget, perspective and the relational conditions of reciprocity
Read articleContainment Before Resolution
Why relational safety determines what conversation can accomplish
Read articleDefensive Mirroring
How protective responses begin reflecting one another across the relational field
Read articleSpeaking Around the Fire
Adult presence, emotional truth, and the space that lets feeling enter relationship
Read articleAttending the Fire
Presence, continuity, and the experience of being received in relationship
Read articleWhen the Fire Moves Between Us
Relational ignition and the moment an exchange begins generating emotional force of its own
Read articleReturning to the Hearth
Rupture, repair, and the practice of finding the way back
Read articleA Gap in the Heart of Relationship
How a relational middle becomes inhabitable when two forms of protection create incompatible conditions for safety
Read articleRelational Memory
How repeated experiences between people become expectations carried into the present
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